How Can I Make My Ex Boyfriend Speak To Me After Break Up
Written by Kim Sanchez   
Sunday, 17 January 2010 08:49
My friend was going crazy calling her boyfriend all day because her calls were not being returned. If you just came from a break up due to your fault and you want to make things up with your ex boyfriend, There are some things that you can do to patch things up. I'm not here to judge you or anything, but I'm here to help get your calls answered by your ex boyfriend. At the same time, I hope that my tips will help you get back with him too.
by KimSanchez


My friend was going crazy calling her boyfriend all day because her calls were not being returned. If you just came from a break up due to your fault and you want to make things up with your ex boyfriend, There are some things that you can do to patch things up. I'm not here to judge you or anything, but I'm here to help get your calls answered by your ex boyfriend. At the same time, I hope that my tips will help you get back with him too.

It is only natural for your ex boyfriend to ignore your calls during a break up, sometimes even if you are at fault or not. Your boyfriend may be in tremendous emotional pain because of the break up. Do not lose hope, though. This is not a hopeless situation. There are still a lot of ways that you can get him to talk to you.

There first thing you need to avoid is stalking. Stalking is not only impractical it is also very creepy. This will eventually turn him off even more. You will only make him feel trapped and this will make him push you away further. I suggest that you give him the time to heal and think about everything.

The second thing that you need to do is to leave curiosity driven messages on his voice mail or mobile phone. Do not go in circles with your message. Get to the point and rehearse your voice mail as much as you can. Do not just act on emotions or whims. You have to appeal to his logical side rather than appealing to his emotions. If he does not respond just give him time to think for himself then.

If he still does not call you after a week or so then you have to move slowly and deliberately. You can ask a close friend or a common friend to serve as a bridge of communication between you two. You can sue your friend's phone to call up your boyfriend. He will definitely answer it. This is where your rehearsal will come into play. Go direct to the point and be honest but calm when talking to him.

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